Anonymous says…
Why do we have to be so cold to one another? I swear a white female/male or black male employee would be ten times more likely to say hi to me first and introduce themselves then a black female employee. I work at a new job and I’ve gotten nothing but serious looks, or not even an acknowledgement by the black women in the company. I have made attempts to be friendly, but get nothing much in return. It’s so upsetting because when you start a new job, you want to feel welcome and the first people I like to become friendly with are the ones who look like me. But I can’t because they are so cold and distant to me. Is it just me, or do oher black women face this problem. I just want to know why black women act like this to one another. I also notice that when it comes to each other they act like this, but when it’s a white or asian employee they are more friendlier.
I’m not generalizing, as I’ve met some really friendly black female employees, but I tend to come across the unfriendly ones more.
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It dawned on me just today that I am never happy.Seriously… it takes a lot to please and make me happy.I become bored easily and that may signal some deep flaw within myself… I dunno.What I am sure of is that I do things to piss myself off and I am an obsessive compulsive person.I’ll spend hours upon hours just obsessing over things that don’t need to be obsessed over and I can’t stop doing it.And no sooner than I get over one obsession I look for another.What does it all mean?
That is what I felt when I first saw this purse.Very few things do I feel a lust to have, but this is one of them.Me and this purse belong together

Well last night the other blog I worked countless hours on died.At first I just started getting error messages with the plugins and then an upgrade was reccomended.I actually decided to scrap the other site and start all over with a fresh 1.5.However, all is not going well with this one either.Funny thing is when I didn’t use the blog all was perfect and now that I have found a purpose for it, everything that could go wrong has.
After working with a forum for years and coders like John, I have a new found love for them.They really set their hacks up and explain well for newbies.It’s a shame most places don’t do that.They just assume you should know and forget that they too used to be newbies.
Plus, I have just spent too much time working on this thing.Last week it was b2 and this week it’s WP.In the meantime the board is falling apart.
What is it all for anyway?