How You Get your Man Is How You Will Lose Him


November 28th, 2005 ( November 28th, 2005 )

I can’t believe I’m about to do this…

Britney and Kevin

That’s right folks, I am actually about to write about this crap of a couple that America seems to be obsessed with.Actually, I’m not gonna write about them as much as I am about how this relationship will eventually turn out.

There is a saying that goes “How you get your man is how you will lose him”

I don’t know who said it first, but it had to be a Sista cause it’s just too profound to have come from anywhere else.

Anyway, by now you all know how “Brit & Kev” got together right? And for those who don’t, here is the quick rundown…

Kev was a background dancer who was involved with actress Shar Jackson.Kev and Shar had about 2 or 3 kids together and Shar was pregnant at the time.I guess Kev went looking for work, came across Brit, they hit it off, Kev dumped pregnant Shar AND THEIR CHILDREN, moved in with Brit, eventually married and had a baby with her too.

That was a mouthful…lol

Now here is where karma and basic life lessons come in.

Britney married and allowed herself to become pregnant by a man who had just walked out on his longtime pregnant girlfriend and their children.Yet I am sure Britney thinks that her relationship will be different, cause most women who STEAL other women’s men always think what he did to “her”, he will never do to me.

Why do people overlook such character flaws in people they love and then look dazed and confused when those character flaws come back to bite them in the ass?

A man who will leave his children for “sex” (you know it’s da truth) is scum.Forget that he left another woman… love can wear off.But how does one walk out on their children for the bed of another woman? What Kev and men like him are essentially doing is putting their children, their flesh and blood, second to their carnal desires…. and that is sick.

So now instead of Shar and Kevin’s children having a fulltime Dada and Brit having a part-time man, it is reversed.Britney gets the bulk of the time and the kids get the weekend.

Britney has seen her future in Shar’s past.What Kev did to Shar he will eventually do to Brit cause once again as the saying goes, “how you get ya man, is how you mos def lose him”.Brit stole her man from another woman’s bed and sometime in the near future, another woman will steal him from Brit and their child.

This is true of not just celebs but everyday men and women.If you got yo man from the bed of another, expect to lose him the same way.What homeboy did to the last woman he will do to you.

I suggest if a woman wants to know what her future will look like with a man, she needs only look at his past with other women to know.

Well, my fingers are tired…. that’s it for me

[tags]Shar Jackson, Kevin Ferdaline, Britney Spears[/tags]

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